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Add Sizzle to Your Bedroom If you are looking for The One, found The One, love The One or are recovering from The One and now want a different One – read on. Let Feng Shui ensure your space attracts relationship. Let’s have clarity as we begin… in relationship, know that YOU are The Ultimate One. First and foremost, love, love, love yourSelf. Instead of looking at a specific life area of the Feng Shui Bagua, our attention now is on the master bedroom. Bedroom energy is especially important to the overall balance of Chi in our lives because we spend so much time there. Focus here to meet a new lover or bring sizzle back to an existing relationship. The single most important piece of furniture in not only your home but your life is your warm, comfy, cozy, snuggly bed. The importance of new-bed energy cannot be overstated. Please do not sleep in a bed you inherited from someone, found at a garage sale or slept in during a previous relationship. Someone else’s old bed is not a ‘deal’. A used bed is imprinted with the energy of the previous owner (oh no – maybe even 'owners'). The prior owner may have been seriously ill, participated in ill-fitting relationships or suffered depression to the point of rarely leaving the bed. You do not want to sleep or passionately enjoy yourSelf in a bed energetically imprinted by who-knows-what. Thinking bed? Think new. Only a new bed and fresh Chi will support you and relationship. As you face into this room from the door, the most auspicious bed placement is looking diagonally against the opposite wall. When sitting in bed, you will be able to see the entry to the room without turning your head more than 45 degrees. For optimal Chi flow, remember to store no thing under the bed (not shoes, wrapping paper, the old VCR…)*. Avoid a great deal of direct sunlight on your bed; it may challenge your ability to sleep at night. Matching nightstands and lamps encourage Chi, especially if you are looking for The One. Be sure you have enough space on each side of the bed to get in comfortably. Leave your things out of their nightstand – make space (i.e. Opportunity) for them – some massage oil would be nice though. Your bedroom is for rest, relaxation, intimacy, rejuvenation, and fun – the space where we re-create ourSelves. At best a television, FAX, desk, computer, sewing machine, exercise equipment, etc. detract and better serve you in a different part of your home. If this is not doable, a screen blocking the machinery from view will help. If you must have a TV in this intimate space, cover the screen when not in use. Quick tips to add spark: If your mate has not yet appeared, leave a drawer empty and some closet space available. This is an adult space so no Teddy bears, model cars, games, etc. Photos of children, parents, family, and friends should be elsewhere – only images of the two of you, or a romantic representation of the two of you here. This is also not the place for mementos from a previous relationship – are you forward-looking or turning back to recall history? Spot and Smokey’s beds should be down the hall – not a wholesome three-some if they sleep in your room. At the end of the day, put laundry in the hamper rather than leaving it on the floor where it diminishes Chi during the night. If you have a bathroom within your bedroom suite, please, keep the door closed all the time. Limit live plants to two. Light two candles (red, pink, or white). Sandalwood essential oil is erotic aromatherapy. Arrange cut flowers in a beautiful vase. In this space let love, romance, and fantasy reign. Open to your imagination. Express gratitude. Try these ideas as they resonate with you. When you enter the sacred space of your bedroom, it should feel so, so pleasing – claim that, and claim the perfect relationship! *If you are pregnant or think you might be, leave under the bed as-is to not disturb the Ling Chi preparing for the new baby. Clear under the bed after the baby is born. Affirmations In gratitude and with an intention to serve. |
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"Your soul is serene because it knows how to magnetize love. Your soul does not struggle or work hard for love. It experiences an abundance of love all the time. You can experience the magnetic quality of soul love and draw love and all good things to you. Sense the magnetic quality of this field of love that emanates from your heart center. Imagine magnetic rings of love spiraling out from your heart center, drawing love to you in all its forms, aspects, and expressions. As you radiate soul love, you are magnetic to the beauty and love within people and to all good things that the universe has to offer." --Sanaya Roman |
